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From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington' 
Subject: Directions to Carmines 
02/20/2002 10:47 AM 

Hi Michael,

Nice to talk to you again. Directions to Carmines are as follows:
110N towards Pasadena Exit Fairoaks-left off of exit Go through one light and it's in the little strip mall with Orchard Hardward on your right.
I will plan on seeing you at 7:00 Monday night.

Have a great day!
Valerie

Valerie Lehman
Senior Catering Sales Manager
Valerie Lehman


From: Michael Washington
To: Valerie Lehman
Sent: Wednesday, February 20, 2002 11:02 AM

Subject: Re: Directions to Carmines

Ok I have it:
Carmine's
http://www.onstagenow.net/Clubs/Carmines/Carmines.htm
424 Fair Oaks Ave.
South Pasadena, CA 91030-1817
One question, It seems like it's a restaurant. Is there a bar and I am to
meet you in the bar? (I am sorry for being so "anal" but I am a programmer
so it's always "details details" :)

 
From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington' 
Subject: RE:Directions to Carmines
02/20/2002 11:17 AM 

No problem, I'm a little anal myself...It's a bar and a restaurant I thought we would meet in the bar. If you don't drink or are not comfortable with that environment there is also a Starbucks and An ice cream place in the same strip mall. Either way is fine with me.


From: Michael Washington
Sent: Wednesday, February 20, 2002 11:39 AM
To: Valerie Lehman
Subject: RE: Directions to Carmines

No the Bar is fine, I don't drink but I enjoy my Virgin Margaritas :) I have to admit that I really like the sound of your voice, very warm and professional. I am sure we will have a lot to talk about, you seem like a very fun and nice person.

Til Monday.


From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: Directions to Carmines 
02/20/2002 12:38 PM 

Thank you Michael, you sound very nice also. I look forward to meeting you on Monday.
Val


From: Michael Washington
Sent: Thursday, February 28, 2002 10:15 AM
To: Valerie Lehman
Subject: Thank you for yesterday

Valerie,
Thank you again for last night (notice how I didn't say "last night" on the subject line, that would look bad on email to your office :). I had a wonderful time. I look forward to seeing you Saturday at 8:00pm (Pacific
Standard Time :). Don't forget to send me your address.

-Michael


From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: Thank you for yesterday
02/28/2002 10:20:52 AM

Hi Michael,
Thank you! I really enjoyed meeting you, you're a sweetheart :-) I am Also looking forward to Saturday, I know we will have a good time, you are very easy to be with. My address is as follows: North Monterey Street, (Street front Apt.) no need to use the Security intercom cause it doesn't work anyway... Basically you take a right off the Fairoaks exit to Huntington, Left on Huntington, Right on Garfield, Left on Pine and Right on Monterey, it's Only about 2-3 miles from Carmines. There should be street parking available.

Have a great day!
Val


From: Michael Washington
Sent: Monday, March 04, 2002 10:23 AM
To: Valerie Lehman
Subject: Wednesday for drinks

Valerie,
That last date was the best. For me it went perfect and I am looking forward to seeing you Saturday. I would love to meet you Wednesday for drinks, let me know.


From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: Wednesday for drinks 
03/05/2002 07:51AM 

Hi Sweetie,

I had yesterday off so I just got your e-mail. I had a great time Saturday as well! Wednesday sounds good. How about I make you dinner instead of going out for drinks. How does a nice steak and baked potato sound? Let me know and have a great day.
Val


From: Michael Washington 
To: Valerie Lehman 
Tuesday, March 05, 2002 9:56 AM 
Subject: RE: Wednesday for drinks 

Yes. Thank you, I am looking forward to your cooking :) 7:00pm? also: 
Things you might not know: 

Mosquito repellents don't repel. They hide you. The spray blocks the mosquitos' sensors so they don't know you're there. And, the best for last..... 
Turtles can breathe through their butts.


From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington' 
Subject: RE: Wednesday for drinks 
03/05/2002 10:05 AM 

7:00 would be just fine...my what a wealth of knowledge you are! See you tomorrow night. 
Val 


From: Michael Washington 
Sent: Wednesday, March 06, 2002 11:25 AM 
To: Valerie Lehman 
Subject: Can't wait to see you 

I have to switch cars before I come out there because my car has been overheating, but I still should get there by 7:00pm. Should I pick up a bottle of wine, if so what kind?


From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: Can't wait to see you 
03/06/2002 12:05 PM 

Hey you...No problem if you are a little bit late, I'm doing a very simple steak, potato, salad dinner. Are you okay with red meat? No need to bring wine, you don't drink it and I pretty much stick with my vodka tonics. 
Thank you for offering. 

I'm looking forward to seeing you :-) 
V


From: Michael Washington 
Sent: Wednesday, March 06, 2002 12:13 PM 
To: Valerie Lehman 
Subject: RE: Can't wait to see you 

I can't eat shell fish (but I do love any non shell fish) and I don't drink, otherwise I do it all! <grin> 
See you at 7:00, I refuse to be late! <smile>


From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: Can't wait to see you 
03/06/2002 12:19 PM 

YECH!!!! Fish...I don't eat fish without a shell :-) 
See you at 7:00.


From: Michael Washington 
Sent: Monday, March 11, 2002 9:40 AM 
To: Valerie Lehman 
Subject: Good Morning! 

Hello Princess, 
I had a wonderful time this weekend and I think of you often. I look forward to seeing you Wednesday. Possible choices for Wednesday: 
1. I pick up a movie (your choice) and food (your choice) and bring it over. 
2. I pick up some food (your choice) and I spend the rest of the night staring into your eyes :) 
3. ?? 


From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: Good Morning! 
03/11/2002 09:43 AM 

I enjoyed you this weekend as well, Thank you for a lovely time. Whatever strikes your fancy Wednesday is fine with me, surprise me... I hope your Monday is off to a good start. 
Take care sweetie, 
V


From: Michael Washington 
Sent: Monday, March 11, 2002 3:08 PM 
To: Valerie Lehman 
Subject: RE: Good Morning! 

... on the food and movie thing. If I were you I would ensure that your KISS profile is correct otherwise you're gonna be eating food you don't like and watching a movie you can't stand :) I would like to take you to a movie (at a theatre) this weekend if possible. Let me know how your weekend is stacking up. 


From: "Lehman, Valerie" 
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: Good Morning!
03/11/2002 03:18 PM 

On the food and movie thing...I have no idea what my profile says I like, can't remember. So...I will just tell you. I like Drama, Comedy and Horror...I do not like slapstick crap like "Austin Powers" and I'm not nuts about Action flicks. The only food I don't like is Indian food, Curry sucks! (Also do not eat lima beans, liver, or beets) that's about it. 
See 
how easy I am (grin) 

At present my weekend is pretty open, let me know what works well for you. 
XXXOOO 


From: Michael Washington 
Sent: Tuesday, March 12, 2002 4:11 PM 
To: Valerie Lehman 
Subject: RE: I've been working on you... 

My number at work is 468-XXXX Call me anytime :) I got this message late because we had a bunch of stuff going on today.


From: "Lehman, Valerie"
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: I've been working on you...
03/14/2002 09:08 AM 

Good Morning Sweet Man, 
Just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy spending time with you and thank you for the KFC :-) 
I hope you are feeling better today, take some vitamins! Have a good day. 
XXOO Val


From: Michael Washington 
To: Valerie Lehman 
Sent: Thursday, March 14, 2002 9:57 AM 
Subject: RE: I've been working on [top of] you... 

Good Morning Princess, 
Good luck on the Root Canal negotiations. Nothing they say will upset you if you expect them to be a pain in the ass because they are an insurance company after all. Thank you for asking about my continuing health drama. I will take some vitamins and get more rest. Saturday you're mine :) 

Someone just sent this to me. They said turn up your sound and stare at the 
picture on the wall for 45 seconds: 
http://home.attbi.com/~n9ivo/whatswrong.swf


From: "Lehman, Valerie"
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: I've been working on [top of] you... 
03/14/2002 10:10 AM

JESUS! Scared the crap out of me!!! Too Funny.


From: Michael Washington 
To: Valerie Lehman 
Sent: Friday, March 15, 2002 9:34 AM
Subject: RE: You will enjoy my support [behind] you 

Good morning Princess, 
I hope today is a good day for you. It's Friday! Be safe and don't party too hard :) Me, I wish I could say that I was finally well. I am so tired of feeling under the weather. The good news is that I am feeling the same as I was on Wednesday that isn't too bad. Normally I never get sick and it's REALLY starting to annoy me that you have seen me act like a hypochondriac. 
Honestly, I can't wait till Saturday.


From: "Lehman, Valerie"
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: RE: You will enjoy my support [behind] you 
03/15/2002 09:45 AM

Good Morning Sweetie, 
I am so sorry you still feel puny, get lot's of rest tonight. I am not going out tonight, so I will be feeling great tomorrow, I promise no hangover :-) I'll find out the closest theater with the movie playing and times and stuff. Are we still planning on 4:00? So I can plan on 5:00? (grin) I'm looking forward to seeing you again. 

Have a good day! 
XXOO V


From: "Michael Washington" <Michael Washington>
To: <Valerie Lehman>
Sent: Thursday, April 11, 2002 8:28 PM
Subject: Eight Things to Look for in a Partner

I found this interesting:
http://www.thirdage.com/news/archive/ALT03020222-01.html


From: Valerie Lehman [mailto:Valerie Lehman] 
Sent: Saturday, April 13, 2002 11:11 PM 
To: Michael Washington
Subject: Re: Eight Things to Look for in a Partner

Hello my baby,
It's Saturday night and you are on you "date" (kidding) and I was just looking over the e-mail you sent me and thinking about you, (like always) and wanted to talk to you so hence the e-mail...I envision you coming home tonight and checking your e-mail and finding this and understanding me yet a little more...
In sequence to the e-mail re: what's important in a relationship, you fall as follows:
EMPATHY: Hugely important to me...I feel you are a very empathetic person, you totally care about the people you love but have the intelligence and foresight to know what can and can not help them. I have a great deal of respect for the way you think about people and things and I know you "have the back" for those you care about.
AFFECTION: Oh my god!!! You are so incredibly affectionate and sweet and loving...I could not ask for any thing more in this particular area...you make me feel so wanted and so loved. Your touch is free and always there and so real. You make me feel wonderful in this area.
SEXUALITY: GOD DAMN!!!!! Baby.... you rock my world! I adore your touch. I want to do so very many things with you and you make me feel incredible!
RELIABILITY: I know this is an area you feel weak at...I trust you completely; I believe you will do what you say you will do. I greatly appreciate how sorry you are when you are the slightest bit late or make the slightest error as to what you said you would do. You recognize what is real and respect it...I love that about you.
HONESTY: This is like THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in my life. I never trust anyone or believe in them completely and I do have that feeling for you. It scares the crap out of me to trust someone as much as I do you, but I do.
NEATNESS: (GRIN) You make me feel so good about how you admire my place and how I take care of things, this is very important to me and I see that you like it and admire it about me. I feel really good about that.
INTELLECTUAL/SOCIAL CAPACITY: We gel....It's all good no matter where we are or what we are doing. I love that. I am so completely comfortable with you. I never feel like you will embarrass me or hurt my feelings in public. I am so proud to be with you at all times.
FINANCIAL:: You have a couple of hang-ups here...I don't care about how much you make...don't get me wrong, I am so proud of you...but it's so not about money. I love nice things and doing fun things and I totally respect that you can make that happen. I just worry that you may get obsessed there...You are so very successful and you don't give yourself enough credit.
CHILDREN: I so admire what you are trying to do with your son. I'm so sorry it happened the way it did for you, but you really are doing so much to make it better. It's never going to be perfect baby...it was a thing at a time. 
Any way, I am going to go to bed now. I just wanted to share some of how I feel about you with you. I love you so much it scares me. Be patient with
me.
XXOO
V


From: "Michael Washington" <Michael Washington> 
To: "Valerie Lehman" <Valerie Lehman> 
Sent: Sunday, April 14, 2002 2:16 AM 
Subject: RE: Eight Things to Look for in a Partner 

Princess, 
Wow you must be psychic because I did come home after my meeting and get this email...
Your ability to communicate with me really gives me faith that we will be together for a long time. This email from you was a total ego boost, and after I read it a few times and enjoyed the feeling of all this love I felt one good stroke from you deserves a few strokes from me <smile>: 
EMPATHY: Deep inside you I feel a kindness for others. This is something a person either has or they don't. Initially I would think about what separates you from other women I have liked (I don't do this anymore. I am so past "questioning" my feelings for you :) and your "kindness" and empathy was one of the things that I "desire" and "need". 
AFFECTION: Your affection for me is the drug that makes me "goofy" at times. When we were laying in the bed before I left you had to roll over. I "unwound" from you to allow you to roll over. When you rolled back you pulled me toward you. The feelings that causes are priceless. 
SEXUALITY: Already you are the most giving and loving person I have ever known. What is so damn exciting is that this is sooo early into the relationship. There is so much more to come. 
RELIABILITY: When you hang out with people with good habits it tends to rub off on you. I still have a long way to go. I measure myself against you. I look up to you in this (and many other areas). I desire to be like you. 
HONESTY: When you send me emails like this my trust level in you climbs. Already I trust you completely. Again, this comes natural to you, you don't have to "work" at it the way I do. 
NEATNESS: There simply isn't anything to say that isn't obvious. I feel proud for my parents to see how you live. I have never felt as proud as I do of you for the way you carry yourself and live your life. Please don't be scared when I say you are a person a man would want to be the mother of his children because you would have a household that one would feel is the best (clean/neat/respectable) 
INTELLECTUAL/SOCIAL CAPACITY: While I work very hard on how I behave myself and interact with others, proper behavior comes natural to you because it is simple the "right" thing to do, fascinating! 
FINANCIAL:: You have to accept the fact that *I* am J---- when it comes to money. The only difference is I have been working VERY hard at the problem :) 
I simply Love you, Valerie. I love you with all my heart. 
-Me 


From: Valerie Lehman [mailto:Valerie Lehman] 
To: Michael Washington
Sent: Monday, April 15, 2002 9:01 PM 
Subject: Thinking of you... 

Hello baby, 
I miss you. It's amazing to me how much time I spend thinking about you. I don't really have anything in particular to say to you, you are just so on my mind and it's bedtime and I know I'll sleep better if I talk to you for a minute. 
I hope you had a good productive evening. I pretty much chilled, little bit of stuff around the house and ready to go to bed early. I made a marinade and we will have a fabulous roast for dinner...putzed around my apartment and thought about you. I want you to do something with me tomorrow night...It might seem kind of silly but I don't think you will feel that way. The candle you bought me, the same one from my brother for Christmas is all about "new beginnings" I want to do the ceremony thing with you...i'ts just kind of like a little poem, but it feels special and it's how I feel about us. I think you will think it's cool, and if you don't...humor me :-) 
Michael you mean so much to me. I was going to say "I don't think you know how much you mean to me" but I think that's bullshit, I think you do know. This is really special and really frightening at the same time. I think you know exactly where I am at and you so do all the right things to make me feel okay about it. I truly love you, like the special kind of love we always question as to whether or not it's ever going to happen. You said you would be happy about this regardless of what happens, I feel the same way. I would not have not experienced the fact that I can love someone this deeply for anything. If it were to turn out badly I would still be so happy to know I can feel like this. I don't think that will happen but I will have that knowledge and feeling no matter what. 
I question myself at how "MUSHY" I feel about all of this, but I am compelled to share it with you. I have not been romantic for a very long time and I have to admit I feel a little bit silly...at the same time I just can't help it, I adore you. 
I can't wait to see you tomorrow baby, I love you. 
Val


From: Valerie Lehman [mailto:Valerie Lehman] 
To: Michael Washington
Sent: Monday, April 15, 2002 
Subject: I really liked this.........

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE

...one old love she can imagine
going back to... and one who reminds
her how far she has come...

...enough money within her
control to move out and rent a place
of her own even if she never wants
to or needs to...

...something perfect to wear if
the employer or date of her dreams
wants to see her in an hour...

...a youth she's content to
leave behind...
...a past juicy enough that
she's looking forward to retelling it
in her old age...

...a set of screwdrivers, a
cordless drill, and a black lace
bra...

...one friend who always makes
her laugh... and one who lets her
cry...

...a good piece of furniture
not previously owned by anyone else
in her family...

...eight matching plates, wine
glasses with stems, and a recipe
for a meal that will make her
guests feel honored..

...a feeling of control over
her destiny...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

...how to fall in love without
losing herself...
...how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend
without ruining the friendship...

...when to try harder... and
when to walk away...

...that she can't change the
length of her calves, the width of
her hips, or the nature of her
parents...
...that her childhood may not
have been perfect... but its over...

...what she would and wouldn't
do for love or more...

...how to live alone... even if
she doesn't like it...
...whom she can trust, whom she
can't, and why she shouldn't take
it personally...

..where to go... be it to her
best friend's kitchen table... or a
charming inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...

...what she can and can't
accomplish in a day... a month...and
a year...

"You must do the things you think you cannot do."

-- Eleanor Roosevelt


From: Michael Washington 
To: Valerie Lehman
Sent: Monday, April 15, 2002 10:54 PM 
Subject: RE: Thinking of you... [washing over me]

I never expect an email from you, but when I see one from you I become happy and this good feeling washes over me.
I very much want to do "The Candle" and the poem with you.
I have a hard time conveying what a gift it is from you to have you express your feelings for me. This gift from you actually alters my perception of everything around me. When I feel the way I feel when I read your words or hear the affection from your lips I don't see the world as dark and hostile, I see the world as being exactly like it should be. I become more accepting and open minded. I think I feel this way because to feel a stronger touch from you I have to open myself up more to receive it
(For example, if I doubted your words and tried to "read between the lines" I would miss the simple honest message. Or, if I have preconceived notions of how I think YOU should feel and react, I would be closed to the new insight and perspective you are trying to convey).
I was also moved by your desire to do the Buddhist chant. I have little experience in chanting and meditation, but I am familiar with it's effects and purpose. Perhaps we can for 5 minutes simply try a simple chant and see where it takes us. They say you have to "fake it till you make it" because it initially feels so unnatural, but in time with practice it is possible to achieve a trancelike state, the purpose of which is to feel a "oneness with the universe". I came close to this state during meditation. To do this I had to open my mind as wide as possible, drive out my opinions and my bias. I used a chant to concentrate. I felt a "oneness" for a few shot seconds. I can also achieve this state during the "cool down" period after Yoga.
anyway, perhaps you can Humor me :) 

-Me


From: Michael Washington 
To: Valerie Lehman
Sent: Wednesday, April 17, 2002 6:08 PM 
Subject: I received your card today...

Princess,
I received your card today and wow! I am more than touched by you continued gifts. Rather than make my head spin more it settles me and makes me feel calm at these signs of affection from you. After the candle last night I know that you don't just say you love me you show it by sharing the most valuable thing you have, your soul/heart.
Thank you, Thank you SO much!
I love you (and I will show you daily!!)
(This is a "corny" flash movie but the words describe exactly how I feel: http://www.quickinspirations.com/flash/you.asp )

-Me


From: "Lehman, Valerie"
To: 'Michael Washington'
Subject: H 
04/17/2002 08:48 AM 

Hey sweetie, 

Just want to say "THANKS" cause I am in a fantastic mood today...all cause of you :-) What a way to start the day off (grin) I hope you have a great Wednesday. Talk to you later.


From: <Michael Washington>
To: <Valerie Lehman>
Sent: Tuesday, April 23, 2002 5:02 PM
Subject: i miss you...

Princess,
Just sitting here waiting to go home. I got a lot done today. Thought about you a lot today. wish I were seeing you tonight. I like the way I feel when I'm with you. I want to feel like that now! It's fun looking forward to seeing you :)

anyway...
If you're reading this then you got home safely so I'm happy :)

Love
-Me


From: Valerie Lehman
To: Michael Washington
Sent: Tuesday, April 23, 2002 6:59 PM 
Subject: Re: i miss you...

Hello Baby,
I miss you too and spent a lot of my day thinking about you. I like the way I feel when I'm with you too, and I can't wait to see you tomorrow. I have to tell you though, I am afraid...not afraid that it won't work or afraid that you will hurt me really, just afraid of the feelings. My feelings for you are so intense sometimes I feel like I'm going to cry just because my heart/head/soul I'm not sure are so full of feelings that I could burst. I tell myself to just let it feel good, but I have a hard time getting past feeling this fear. I guess it's a fear of loss maybe...that something will happen to make all the good feelings go away? I don't know but it's there.